When her husband dies, not only is she shattered with her lost, she gets mentally abused in the name of culture, WHY is it when the husband dies the lady has to go thru these ridiculous ceremonies in the name of tradition? I don't see any man been ask to go thru such when it's the wife who dies.
I have seen this in many funerals where they doll up the wife as a bride immaterial of her age, in the name of "ritual ceremony".
I just don't see the need for a lady to remove her Bangles, Flowers & Bindi/Pottu which she has been wearing since she was young? The only thing she gets after her marriage is the sacred chain ( Mangalsutra/Thali ), Isn't that the only thing which has to be technically removed ? Why does she lose her right to dress up ones her husband is gone?
I just don't see the need for a lady to remove her Bangles, Flowers & Bindi/Pottu which she has been wearing since she was young? The only thing she gets after her marriage is the sacred chain ( Mangalsutra/Thali ), Isn't that the only thing which has to be technically removed ? Why does she lose her right to dress up ones her husband is gone?
Let her live her life the way she wants in peace! No lady becomes a WIDOW by a choice !
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